What should Holding Out do?
He's not "weighing his options," he's just trying to figure out how to get you into bed. Chances are, no matter what you do or say, he won't want anything serious. So forget it.
Tell him exactly what you want, and see how he reacts. Of course, there's no guarantee that he won't lie and say he wants a relationship then run a mile as soon as you have sex.
You need to find out where you stand. Maybe he thinks you guys have been dating for 3 months already! In which case, he's being quite gentlemanly so far...
Sex isn't a weapon or a negotiating tool. Either you want to sleep with him or you don't. Either he wants to date you or he doesn't. No reason why one should be dependent on the other.
Just go ahead and sleep with him! Holding out or not holding out won't affect whether or not he wants to date you, so you may as well have fun in the meantime.
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