Do these men have a point about American black women?

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  • annie - 9 years ago

    Not all shai nd u speak very good english excuse good grammar im a dominican american female ive been dating a jamaican guy for 5yrs hes acted a fool in the past but when u do right n u keep it tight u dnt feel used ive done things in the past to get by work graveyard shifts not worrying about if hes cheating o never

  • Mr.International - 11 years ago

    I dated American women for years and had nothing but problems in my life. They always worried about there friends, what they are wearing or what they are driving. You come home from work and there are dressed ready to hit the door and say I'm going out with some of my girlfriends tonight. They fuss if you call to late. And will quickly say I pay the bill on this phone I'll answer it when I fell like it. Black females tell me well its just the type of women I been dating. Well I dated all kinds. Government job women, club women, normal job women over time they are all the same, some hide there true person better than most.
    Well now I have a Dominican Wife she never gave me any problems. She cooks twice a day and clean or apartment. She does not fuss and only ask for something if she really needs it. I don't have to beg for sex. Or do something first to get it. I am very happy with this Dominican women and she looks like a queen very pretty. Black females I know hate her.

  • Tony S - 12 years ago

    ALL Black men should get Dominican wives. American Black women will make your life miserable...a living hell! And it's not getting better...it's getting worse! Don't marry them and don't even have sex with them. Just leave them alone. Go to the DR!

  • mic - 12 years ago

    I have never had the pleasure of visiting the DR, but I have contact with a few in Nyc. I agree Dominican women are different. The women I talk to some were born here , others raised here, and still there is enough of a difference where I prefer relationships with Dominican women rather than our own. Our women spend to much time doing the things that chase men away, I remember when Black men spoke of mostly situations concerning race when it came to always being put down, being made to feel less than a man, having to compete all the time, having to meet standards that white men, latino men asian men would never have to deal with. I think all those folks out there who've been trying to keep Black men down actually applaud Black women for doing their job. And I always hear Black men speak of our women calling us Dogs, when they wrote the book. YUP I am looking forward to a LTR with a Dominican women, I can say I will live alot longer, simply due to the way they treat their man.

  • Ron - 12 years ago

    I just came back from DR. The women are so beautiful I can honestly say they are some of the most beautiful women in the world. DR is a man's paradise. I can guarentee any man that if he were to take a trip just once they would not be disappointed. You need to be able to speak spanish but you will have a good time. The women are easy to approach. Just be sure to bring a raincoat.

  • Tishreni - 12 years ago

    I dont think there is a problem with going down there and meeting a beautiful Black woman from the islands.What man wouldnt want a woman that is submisive and hangs on to his every word?The real issue is is that would that same Dominican woman in the states with a decent job even look at you twice?Anybody can go and get a partner from another country if we want to.Myself being a Black American woman could go anywhere in the carribean and pickup the first guy that needs papers..but is that love?It might be for me since i'd be the one conjuring up fantasies in my mind of what the perfect ideal romance would be.Maybe not so much on the part of the man though.

    Seeing as though most Black men are going to leave the race anyway its probably best to exercise common sense to justify your actions..Pick a well to do country where the women arent oppresed and might actually like you for you..U.S territories,Canada,middleclass Asian countries and certain parts of Europe.Or if all else fails, just get a personality and off your high horse and learn to love and deal with the American Black woman.Its a concept that has been working for several years..

  • La Negra - 13 years ago

    I gotta agree with shai, for the right price I'll be nice to anything and anyone. The dominican republic is a third world county and women are out their looking for their daily bread, and a first class ticket to the United States. Alot of these women are beautiful, work in night clubs and resorts or go to tourist areas because they know they will find themselves a meal ticket. I am not bashing dominican women because I myself am dominican, but men lets be serious and think about this for a minute! ;-)

  • Dominique Bourque - 13 years ago

    For me it's not so much about a woman cooking, cleaning, running my bathwater, or anything like that. It's the mental mind games, the constant manipuation of information, facts, and emotions, the need to compete in a relationship, the forsaking a good relationship inorder to please others outside of the relationship. These are the things which is slowly driving me away for A.A. women.

  • Candis - 13 years ago

    Well to me comparing One race of women to another is carrying on racial steryotypes in a whole other sense. I am a 23 yr old African American women who cooks everyday, cleans, take care of my girls, n make sure my husband is happy. I dnt know why black men put us all down for what other black girls do.... We r not all da same. Maybe U are doin something wrong so check urself.

  • Shai - 13 years ago

    I am from D.R. and must admit that when I get paid I become a actress and will stroke the ego of these black men for a price of course. My job is to keep him happy besides if I dont he may not pay me for being nice to him.

    Most of these men really think they are the only one but when one leaves another one cums and then I become an actress again to him.

    I am sure if I lived in US things may be different for me I could get a job that pays more money and I wouldn't have to prostitute myself out to these men and most I dont like. They are not the best looking men. Goodlooking American Black men don't have to pay for attention. Us D.R. women dont love doing what he have to (lie, fake) but it is how we eat.

  • Alvin - 14 years ago

    It saddens me to write this. I agree 100% with the article. Speaking generally, the American black women I have encountered in my dating life seem to have a big problem supporting the black man (men) in their lives. There is definitely an element of competition involved. She doesn't know how to treat a man. I believe it stems from many of them not having father in the household and thus not understanding from a young age how to treat a man. I've read and studied about the situation black marriage and dating are in here in the United States. At this point in my life I'm past the study about the subject. I've just started dating a Domincan gal in Sosua and she's totally great. I'll be back to see her in a few weeks. Life could only be better if I was in the Dominican Republic full time. Flights are cheap enough, so for now.....life is great and is much better than it's been when I've dated American Black women who've been local.

  • nolagirl - 14 years ago

    i am a black woman and i cook and clean run his shower he don't have to lift a finger when he comes home so its not impossible to have a black woman that will treat you like a king but are u black men willing to treat your black woman like the queen she is ?? most of y'all will treat a woman of another race better than u would your black queen so you should check yourself too before you go pointing the finger at all black women because we are not all the same.you should also look at the type of women you deal with i mean what type of woman wont clean up ? ~sighs~ sick of the stereotypes

  • Tony - 14 years ago

    Absolutley it's not about sex but the quality of woman. I am engaged to a beautiful woman in DR. And guess what we haven't had sex yet !!! But being around the block the women in DR are longing for a good man who want someone to build a family. I told my fiancee that when she come here she doesn't have to work. She said no i want to work to help take care of you !!! I leave it at that !!!!

  • ed - 14 years ago

    I dont want to slam black woman but they have to wake up. They seem to carry a grudge or a chip on their shoulder. I was married to a black woman and have dated other ethnic groups. By far woman from the DR are the best. Its not about sex. They make you feel important. They want to know what makes you happy. With them you want to make them happy. They are easy to please and very humble and greatfull for anything you do. Black woman are losing out and I dont see this trend slowing down. Black men dont want to compete at home we want partners .

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