What should D.C.I.P.L. do?
You should actually break up right now (or at least make your relationship non-exclusive) and each enjoy your college years! If it's truly love, you'll find each other after graduation.
Moving to the same university is the best way to kill this budding relationship! Give each other a bit of space and your relationship will thrive. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Your mom is totally right (sorry): You're too young to be planning your life around his yet. If it's meant to be, it'll work out.
Why not wait another year; if, after that, you're still together and still miserable being apart, then you can transfer.
You're right, no one should tell you what love feels like. If moving feels really right to you, just do it!
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