If your boyfriend cheated on you once, would you stay with him?

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  • Sarah - 13 years ago

    A few months ago my boyfriend and my ex friend almost kissed. They are really great friends and she apparently was upset and my boyfriend was drunk and he told he how much he wanted to kiss her. I feel like its the same as him actually doing somthing and him being drunk doesn't matter. I hate him so much but I love him so much. I dont know what to do these past few months have been hell.

  • confused - 14 years ago

    well me and my boyfriend have been dating a month and a few days and in that month he went on holiday for two weeks and when he got back he emailed me telling me while he was on holiday he had kissed another girl because he had had too much to drink and the reason he told me was because he felt really guilty about it and he wanted me to know the truth. Anyway i took him back and said if he ever did it again it would be over between us an dhe has [romised me that he will never do it again but how can i trust him?? i love him but we have not even kissed since he has told me cause i can not get the image out of my head of him kissing another gilr. A little advice please if anyone can help i would really appreciate it.

  • Lisa - 14 years ago

    I agree with the gentleman that commented... I also believe that drinking is not an excuse for cheating, if you cheated that means you wanted to do it, whether your drunk or not, if you love your spouse that much you know, than you need to take your ass home. Being drunk is just a cover- up of their true feeling! I'm going thru that situation right now, my bf slept with ex ( cause he was drunk) once ( so he say) and got her pregnant. So guess who look like the "fool". Now I'm debating on whether I should stay for the kids or just make myself happy.

  • Jackie - 14 years ago

    i've been dating this guy for 11mnths n he hurt me so many times,he cheated on me in the beginning of the relationship,he told a gurl on myspace that he didnt have a gurl, n that she could b the one,n recently a gurl called sayn that her n mi man was doin sum stuff together.....N yes im still wit him even though he put me threw so much, because i love him, n because he's been dere for mi wen nobody else wouldnt. he was always by my side.so if u realli love sum one. u should never give up....because he'll start to realize that he has a good gurl, that will never leave he's side. n change da way he act...(thats wat i beleive)

  • Dany - 14 years ago

    Well something like this happened to me and actually I was thankful hearing it from him and not someone else and at least he told the truth really. A relationship is about trust right?

  • jean - 14 years ago

    as i knw cheating is a disrespect to yourself

  • Yes - 15 years ago

    Listen, I see alot of very weak people here. The love you have for someone you truly care for and you truly would give your life for is never subjected by alcohol. You know when you are drunk who you love. your mind might be a little off kilter but your heart is never. It always speaks the truth. So if these guys cheated on you they simply did because there heart did not tell them they loved you. It told them they did not love you that much to give up this piece of ace tonight. I am a man. I talk to these cheating guys all day and it makes me sick to my stomach. I am so against it and when I hear these stories I want to hit someone. Cheating is a disrespect to yourself as well as the other person. If you are that weak that you can't control cheating even if its one time, believe me that person will stay weak there whole life and when you need them most that weakness will come out.

  • Angela - 15 years ago

    I think all of you are in NEED in a great REALITY CHECK. If someone cheats once they WILL always cheat again....Regardless of what they have consumed... Always remeber this......ITS A THOUGHT BEFORE ITS AN ACTION!!!!

  • kris - 15 years ago

    my bf cheated on me. kissed another girl, spent time with her for a month. the girl was the one who told me about whats happening cause she was already falling for my bf. my bf left her and stayed with me. i didnt wanna forgive him but i stayed cause i know it will hurt the other girl. we are still together now, but things are not as it were. im stupid, yes.

  • hurtlocker71@yahoo.com - 15 years ago

    Yeah, I uh.....think I'm in love with her. Kinda know. Advice would be GREAT right now. Thanks.

  • hurtlocker71@yahoo.com - 15 years ago

    Spelled serious wrong. Sorry.

  • hurtlocker71@yahoo.com - 15 years ago

    seriuos question. This girl had a 5 yr. relationship with this guy...we are spending time together and she feels like she is doing something wrong 3 orgasms in two days. (not me...her) Background: I knew her before this guy did and was really upset when I knew that she was with him. So, i have some feelings about that AND he cheated on her alot. Advice?

  • jennifer - 15 years ago

    well just a few days ago my bf just told me he kissed 2 girls one on friday night and one on sat, his excuse was he was really drunk on friday but on sat the girl forced herself onto him....i have forgiven him for it coz i did kiss some1 at the biginin of the relationship but he did it twice regaurdless of the consequences....i feel insecure about him now...dont no wheater his going to do it again :(:(:(:(

  • adicted23 - 15 years ago

    i had experience that before,your lucky coz its juzt a kiss,what happend to me is he made love to another girl and the girl got pregnant,but because i love him i accepted him again and gave him another chance,.so in your situation i think if you love him just give another chance but ask him a promise that if he did that again you will never tolerate it.

  • Ces Flores - 15 years ago

    You should give him a second chance, all guys cheat but not all of them will admit it. If you break up with every guy that cheats on you'll never have a long lasting relationship, do you think those couples that last 30-40 years together were completely faithful? Take it from a mature woman. Those girls who voted for you to leave him probably don't even have a man.

  • Damarys M. A - 15 years ago

    I wouldn't forgive him. If someone does something once, regardless of what it is, the chances of the situation repeating itself are more than likely. The scenerio may even worsen.
    Someone that loves you, won't hurt you!-> words to live by...

  • Autumn Nixon - 15 years ago

    If my Fiance' cheated on me, but told the truth I'd feel a little useless. I'd still love him and want to be with him but I'd know that things would never be exactly the same between us. I do trust by Fiance' and always will until he gives me a reason not to. So I'm not too sure if I would want to stay with him or forgive him and move on with our relationship. I'd have to be there to decide what I'd feel like doing, but hopefully I'll never have to be in that situation.

  • lis - 15 years ago

    a kiss is not a kiss.... that is how my thing began. With alcohol.

  • Lis - 15 years ago

    my ex cheated on me with an old friend. I hated them for like 4 months, then i forgave him, and is not the same btwn my ex friend and me. It feels so awckard cause we have the same circle of friends of high school, university... and since we work kinda on the same circle is very frustrating. When i decided to leave him, she convinced me not to... so i didnt... and then that is when i fell kinda in love. And all off that happnd. I know that their thing was about sex... cause i didnt want to have sex with him yet ... Now... is not the same... with none of them.... so ... thanks God he left town.. And im happy she ended up heartbroken. I know it sounds bad... but life had to make her pay for smthng :). Now i know why he choose her.... she was too easy... without a strong personality, and just someone that gave him what i didnt. Makes me feel even better knowing that im everything he didnt deserve. So , no i dont forgive infidelity.

  • Katie - 15 years ago

    Hey, he was drunk, and he told the truth. It's not like he did anything too serious. Personally, if my bf did something with someone else, but apologized, I'd be a bit sad for awhile, but I'll always trust him and stay with him even if he acts stupid cuz of the influence of a judgment-affecting substance or anything else for that matter. If you still love him and he still loves you, why go through the pointless pungent pain of a break-up?

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