Hello. I am a marriage therapist and have recently started speaking to couples about their thoughts on spanking in a disciplinary way. This was hard at first, but I had started within my own household. My wife was having mood swings, and days where she was simply out of control. One day, she was being so for a lack of a better word simply a brat and I said she needed a good spanking, and she dared me to do so. I just walked away. I have had clients mention domestic discipline, and basically I steer couples away and suggest talking because there is so much abuse and it is becoming immoral to spank. I’m at an age where I was spanked as a child, but yet I have never spanked my own children. I’ve never discussed with my parents if there was spanking between them, and when I was spanked it was a discussion a spanking, restriction and the punishment was never talked about again. But my wife daring me made me think.
I did some internet reading and knowing my marriage was strong, decided to test it. I left my office and went to locate my wife, I asked if she was feeling better and the immediate response was how dare I ask her such a question. I told her that I would like her to go up to the bedroom and sit on the bed. She said, no, and I said now with a firm voice and to my surprise she went. I took a gulp and without knowing how to handle the situation did a little pacing, it was probably 5 minutes but seemed like an eternity.
I went up the stairs into the bedroom and she was sitting on the bed in sort of a disconcerting manner. I sat down next to her and said, I would like to spank you to see if it will release some of your aggression. She didn’t say anything right away, and then said that she didn’t think it was necessary. I calmly said, I would like to try it, and asked if she trusted me. She said she did and said what if it hurts. I said it would hurt that it would be a real spanking. I knew she had also been spanked growing up, we discussed our feelings about spanking when raising our children. She then asked when, and I said now if you will let me. She said okay.
I got up and grabbed a pair of white cotton underwear for her and one of my white dress shirts. For some reason this came to me on a whim of creating a clean slate. I told her to go into the bathroom, change into the clothing I was handing her and to use the restroom. She said that it wasn’t necessary, and I firmly said that she will do as she is told. With that, she returned in the shirt and underwear. I sat on the corner of the bed and asked her to stand before me. I gave her a hug, and told her that I would stop the spanking when I felt she had had enough. She was going to have to trust me, and I pulled her across my leg and placed my other leg over her legs.
I rubbed her back and her bottom putting my hand under the shirt and I explained that when she isn’t acting like an adult, she needs to be punished and had her tell me what was going on in her mind. She said she had been stressed and that she was sorry and she wouldn’t do it again. I told her that I hoped she wouldn’t but she was still going to get the spanking. I lifted the shirt exposing her underwear and started the spanking. She wiggled and asked me to stop and I told her she hadn’t had enough yet. She was tense and stiff, but somehow I felt that I needed to break her like breaking a horse in. So, I pulled her underwear down, her butt was a little pink and I continued to spank her but surprisingly she was still not conceding to me. Throughout the spanking, I was discussing the importance of maintaining control of her actions, she was agreeing, but wasn’t feeling like she had been out of control and was still more or less denying her actions. My hand was getting sore and she was not unwinding, if anything she seemed to be a bit more tense.
I decided to get her hair brush. I pulled her up from my lap and she immediately pulled up her underwear and said are you s
Billy - 15 years ago
My wife spanks me when I do wrong or intentionly make a mistake. She usally does it at bed time where I sleep in my underwear. She comes in my bed room and jreks down the covers and my shorts then rolls me over and with her hair brush she spanks my bare butt until I'm begging her to stop she never does until I'm crying like a baby.
Hello. I am a marriage therapist and have recently started speaking to couples about their thoughts on spanking in a disciplinary way. This was hard at first, but I had started within my own household. My wife was having mood swings, and days where she was simply out of control. One day, she was being so for a lack of a better word simply a brat and I said she needed a good spanking, and she dared me to do so. I just walked away. I have had clients mention domestic discipline, and basically I steer couples away and suggest talking because there is so much abuse and it is becoming immoral to spank. I’m at an age where I was spanked as a child, but yet I have never spanked my own children. I’ve never discussed with my parents if there was spanking between them, and when I was spanked it was a discussion a spanking, restriction and the punishment was never talked about again. But my wife daring me made me think.
I did some internet reading and knowing my marriage was strong, decided to test it. I left my office and went to locate my wife, I asked if she was feeling better and the immediate response was how dare I ask her such a question. I told her that I would like her to go up to the bedroom and sit on the bed. She said, no, and I said now with a firm voice and to my surprise she went. I took a gulp and without knowing how to handle the situation did a little pacing, it was probably 5 minutes but seemed like an eternity.
I went up the stairs into the bedroom and she was sitting on the bed in sort of a disconcerting manner. I sat down next to her and said, I would like to spank you to see if it will release some of your aggression. She didn’t say anything right away, and then said that she didn’t think it was necessary. I calmly said, I would like to try it, and asked if she trusted me. She said she did and said what if it hurts. I said it would hurt that it would be a real spanking. I knew she had also been spanked growing up, we discussed our feelings about spanking when raising our children. She then asked when, and I said now if you will let me. She said okay.
I got up and grabbed a pair of white cotton underwear for her and one of my white dress shirts. For some reason this came to me on a whim of creating a clean slate. I told her to go into the bathroom, change into the clothing I was handing her and to use the restroom. She said that it wasn’t necessary, and I firmly said that she will do as she is told. With that, she returned in the shirt and underwear. I sat on the corner of the bed and asked her to stand before me. I gave her a hug, and told her that I would stop the spanking when I felt she had had enough. She was going to have to trust me, and I pulled her across my leg and placed my other leg over her legs.
I rubbed her back and her bottom putting my hand under the shirt and I explained that when she isn’t acting like an adult, she needs to be punished and had her tell me what was going on in her mind. She said she had been stressed and that she was sorry and she wouldn’t do it again. I told her that I hoped she wouldn’t but she was still going to get the spanking. I lifted the shirt exposing her underwear and started the spanking. She wiggled and asked me to stop and I told her she hadn’t had enough yet. She was tense and stiff, but somehow I felt that I needed to break her like breaking a horse in. So, I pulled her underwear down, her butt was a little pink and I continued to spank her but surprisingly she was still not conceding to me. Throughout the spanking, I was discussing the importance of maintaining control of her actions, she was agreeing, but wasn’t feeling like she had been out of control and was still more or less denying her actions. My hand was getting sore and she was not unwinding, if anything she seemed to be a bit more tense.
I decided to get her hair brush. I pulled her up from my lap and she immediately pulled up her underwear and said are you s
My wife spanks me when I do wrong or intentionly make a mistake. She usally does it at bed time where I sleep in my underwear. She comes in my bed room and jreks down the covers and my shorts then rolls me over and with her hair brush she spanks my bare butt until I'm begging her to stop she never does until I'm crying like a baby.